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Learning how to speak better is more important than most people realize. We spend our entire lives communicating with one another. And what sets effective, successful confident people apart from unsuccessful, ineffective, diffident people apart from each other is largely a matter of how well they SPEAK!
So, it isn't a trivial issue! Notice that in the 3 speech tips I shared in this video, there was a common thread running throughout. A sort of overarching tip, if you will. And that is the need to cultivate awareness.
A lot of people ask me how to improve speaking skills and want a bite-sized answer. And I always reply the same thing: bring more awareness to your speech.
Think about it. If you simply "wake up" and pay attention to your actions in the present moment, your actions take on a much different quality. Most peoples' speech impediments and anxieties are simply the result of bad speech patterns made into habits.
And the only way to undo poor, ineffective speaking habits is to replace them with new, effective habits. And this starts with becoming aware of your speech.
Notice that in Tip #2 I said when you video tape yourself, you'll notice things you didn't notice when you were making the video. You probably say "umm" a lot, or twitch, or look away too much.
When instead you should be speaking slowly, clearly, expressively, without "umm"s, and looking at the camera warmly. You can essentially give yourself speech tips as if you were coaching yourself!
Another component of learning how to improve your speaking skills is knowing what needs to be improved. Simply being aware that your speech is sub-par will do wonders but you also need to have a concept of what you should be doing instead.
That's really where my friend Dale Mercer's course, "Step Up And Speak" comes into play. Dale is an internationally renowned public speaker who started with a crippling speaking anxiety and turned it around into his biggest strength (and career!)
What I learned from Dale's course has transformed the way I speak when I'm in large groups or doing talks AND the way I communicate one on one with friends or dates.
I only with I'd known about Dale's course in my early 20s. That would've saved me a lot of wasted breath!
You can check out Dale's course by clicking the link below:
http://www.realnaturalseduction.com/speak
